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About follow1in3

I am a Roman Catholic priest ordained for the Diocese of Wilmington, DE who is also a victim of clergy sexual abuse. I am often angered by the insensitiviy and hostility of other clergy, the hierarchy and the so-called people-of-God. If clergy, bishops included, really and truly understood abuse, (any kind of abuse), I would not feel the need to blog on occasion. It is very frustraing.

BOX THIS!


It is coldish and raining. It is also gray, good sleeping weather. Sometimes when I’m depressed I just want to sleep and sleep and sleep. When I was in college seminary I remember telling someone that if I am asleep … Continue reading

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Lenten Sacrificial Idea


This is from 2012. While walking my dog Artemus and while simultaneously talking to a friend of mine on the phone I had a brilliant idea.  It is so brilliant and so profound yet so simple that I am impelled … Continue reading

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Truth and Forgiveness


OK, what has to be done by a priest or parish worker before the diocese steps in to correct/resolve the problem? The infraction de jure is molestation and that seems to be only in the last 20 years, at least … Continue reading

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Yeah, Yeah, God is Great


Because Christmas and Easter cannot be separated, the birth of Jesus, the true light coming into the world, and the risen Christ bringing new light and life back into the world that is fallen because of the sin of Adam, … Continue reading

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Liar’s and the corrupt will not prevail


Back in the seminary all of us had a class in homiletics every semester. One of those times the teacher, a priest, told the class that we give the homily, if we are not egotistical, that we ourselves need to … Continue reading

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“Accept the things I cannot change.” in the Church


At my last reconciliation the priest gave me a penance of reciting 7 times the Serenity Prayer. Since I don’t really know it I looked it up on-line. “Accept the things I cannot change.” That is very difficult for me … Continue reading

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Abortion and Church sexual abuse


In 1973. when I was nine, Roe v Wade was passed by the Supreme Court making abortion legal in some cases and up to a certain point, across the country. At that time there were a plethora of photographs of … Continue reading

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Wrong


What is wrong with people? Why would you offer to perform oral sex on a person that you just met, someone that you don’t even know? Are you that in need of money that you are willing to debase yourself. … Continue reading

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Priest’s and propositions


I have good news to report, (in a twisted way). I was asked by a young man, well younger than me, who I did not know if I wanted a . I said no. Believe it or not I was … Continue reading

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Church Swamp


The arrogance is disheartening. At first I could not believe how many people left the Church because of the sex scandal. So many of them were blaming God for the scandal. Then the realization that a majority of those who … Continue reading

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